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by Brian Nichol
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Reprinted by permission of Sage Publications
Ltd. from Group Analysis Vol. 30 (1997), 93-105
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This paper considers the implications of emotional
pain in learning and personal change. Such
pain is a characteristic feature of the experiential
group and one which therapists take for granted.
Pain is also a feature of professional training
and development in areas such as management
and teaching, but one which is not acknowledged.
A theory of emotions in learning and personal
change in professional development would be
helpful in applying group analysis to non-clinical
fields. Key words: emotion, emotional
pain, group analysis, learning, professional
development.
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Pain in learning and personal growth is something
which group analysts appear to take for granted,
so much so that the literature has little
or no discussion about the issue. Much is
written about the individual components of
pain in therapy, such as anxiety, shame and
grief, but direct discussion of pain as an
inevitable feature of learning and personal
change does not appear to have been explored.
I would suggest that the issue of emotional
pain is central to the relationship of group
analysis to education, and a factor limiting
the wider use of the theory and technique
of group analysis in fields other than psychotherapy
and social work. Group analysts have been
interested in the non-clinical applications
of group analysis for many years. S.H.Foulkes
recognized the potential of group analysis
as an educational method. He believed that
a group analytic group for all people could
make a desirable contribution to
their education as responsible citizens, in
particular of a free and democratic community
(Foulkes and Lewis, 1944) Subsequently
other writers described their experiences.
Abercrombie (1969) applied group analysis
in higher education, Rance (1989: 333-337)
wrote about group analysis in organizations,
Garland (1983: 198-202) applied it as a consultant
in a school setting and Mhlongo (1983: 192-197)
in consulting to social work staff groups.
Nevertheless, my sense is that group analysts
have not yet realized the potential of group
analysis in these fields. One area where
group analysis has developed an exceptional
level of expertise is in the training and
development of group analysts. Although group
analysis in this context is closely bound
up with group analysis as group therapy, that
may miss the point that group analysts now
have a considerable expertise in professional
training and development in general. I
have a specialist interest in human relations
skill training for managers and school teachers.
In 1981 I attended a Group Analytic Society
(London) Introductory Course and subsequently
continued to train and practice as a group
therapist. Apart from developing a certain
competence as a group therapist I was struck
by how much I learned about the learning processes
of professional training and development.
However, it seems to me that the idea of emotional
pain is an anathema to many educators who
are working in these fields. Both management
and teaching require trainees to develop interpersonal
and group work skills, and group analysis
is a powerful method for developing these
skills of human relationships. In my own department
I developed courses for management trainers,
adult educators and trainee school teachers
based on the group analytic model of a seminar
run in tandem with an experiential group.
These courses attracted few participants and
of those trainees that joined the programme
many were highly defended against the feelings
stimulated in the experiential group. This
was in marked contrast to the trainee group
analysts on the advanced courses who valued
the space and time offered by the therapy
group. Why should managers and teachers
not respond to the opportunity of an experiential
group? Clearly there are a number of factors
besides a basic wish to avoid pain, including
the individual's sense of trust, the institutional
culture and the relationships that exist prior
to the course. I suggest that part of the
answer is that these professionals have a
limited theory of the nature and significance
of emotions in learning and development, of
painful affect in particular. We need to develop
an argument that it is normal for professionals
to experience distress at points in the process
of training and development, and that there
is value in working with these feelings directly
rather than denying or repressing them. Group
analysts understand the nature of anxiety
and distress in therapy. They also have a
good deal of expertise in using group analysis
in the training of professionals in group
work. This is a good position from which to
develop a theory of emotions in learning for
educators and trainers who are in need of
many of the same skills. In an unpublished
thesis (Nichol, 1992) I reported on why psychotherapists
in training thought that pain is a part of
learning and growth. With regard to other
professionals I argue here that there is an
important place for group analysis in helping
trainees integrate the emotional and intellectual
dimensions of their training.
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My main research was a participant observation
study of learning to become a group psychotherapist.
I developed case studies of my own experiences
and used my observations as the basis of a
survey of 19 others who had been through training,
based on interviews designed to explore the
significance and meaning of the experiential
group. Reports of pain and distress were commonplace.
Significantly, although these were disturbing
and upsetting the therapists valued the experiences
for their learning and development. The
following examples from the research data
illustrate the nature of what I am naming
as pain in the trainee's experience
of learning to become a group therapist. They
are a small sample of all the episodes the
interviewees reported and have been selected
to indicate the range of painful affect. It
is important to note that, with one exception,
the episodes come from experiential groups
which were part of training courses and not
therapy groups. Group analysts are more likely
to use experiential groups than therapy groups
in the training of other professionals.
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A classical episode in many groups is the
anger expressed in the early stages of the
group forming. Initial reactions are often
one of surprise and puzzlement at the behaviour
of the group conductor and the absence of
an agenda. Often group members express their
anger towards the conductor whom they feel
to be failing them. Jenny reported this from
her first experiential group in the marriage
guidance training at the Rugby centre.
The
tutor entered the room. [He]
sat down and said absolutely nothing. It was
a horrendous experience because we just did
not know what was going on. If I remember,
one or two people began to get a bit angry.
There was a lot of pressure on the group leader
to explain what the rules were. The
tutor did say such things as: I wonder
what is going on in the group at the moment?
which just fanned the flames of the
anger, this rage. After the session
all hell broke loose as we sat there
saying this was bloody awful and what did
they think they were doing. We sat up drinking
coffee getting ourselves wound up into this
rage, working out how we were going to deal
with this tutor if she came back to lead another
of these groups.
As
the group developed however the members came
to appreciate and make sense of the experience.
The conflict was resolved and by the end of
the weekend, after three experiential groups
a day; everything was wonderful, everybody
ended up loving each other, we had sorted
out all our differences and our tutor had
gone from being the pits of the earth to wonderful.
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Peter suffered a personal crisis and he used
his time in the group in coming to terms with
his new situation,
I was struggling
with a medical condition which not only affected
me physically but because it is hereditary,
might also affect my children. ... This all
erupted in the middle of that group and there
was a lot of support and concern for me. There
was nowhere else for that. I was in tears
a lot of the time.
Alison
talked in her group about her unhappy marriage.
She was trying to screw up the courage to
leave her husband but finding it very stressful. There
were times when I wept in the group, times
when I was distressed, but overall I saw it
as very positive and supportive. It was painful
taking all this painful material to the group.
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Speaking about yourself in a group is not
always easy but Matthew believed that the
individual needs to find the courage to do
so.
There is no way you can
shirk things, that is the important thing.
In the sense you go to a session which leads
you to think. But then there is the next session,
so you can not let it go. You go further and
further into your thoughts and fantasies in
a way I had never anticipated at the beginning.
you cannot shrug things off and they
have to be faced. .... You get up the strength
to talk about them in the group. |
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Laura attended a residential workshop and
was surprised how deeply it affected her.
Her father had died three years previously
and the group activated her feelings of grief
and loss.
He had died in January
and the group began in January and there was
some one there who was ill. I did not realize
what connections I was making [as the group
developed] and also I had not realized how
much unresolved grief I had about the death
of my father, and so I practically swam in
tears. And I remember feeling ashamed of that,
as though, expecting to be rejected, really.
... Although it was horrendous experience
and needed a lot of digesting after the course
ended I thought on the whole it was very important. |
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What people learn about themselves in the
group is not always pleasant and that in itself
is painful, as these extracts illustrate.
Peter said,
One of the issues
was finding myself search for a comfortable
pair in the group, on the grounds that if
you can find someone to pair with it is safer.
This particular woman used a very poignant
word to describe what she felt for me, which
set up an echo in me. Also, finding her physically
attractive and wanting to become more involved
with her in the group. But becoming aware
that for me it was a flight to find a mother
and also - frighteningly - a mother who was
sexually attractive and offered more than
comfort.
Anna's case illustrates
the distress people can experience when faced
with an aspect of their character which has
been denied: [The group
was] traumatic for me in that it put me in
touch with my destructiveness, my potential
to be destructive and to undermine, and to
gain a false sense of security through [manipulation].
... That insight was quite traumatic. ...
It was awful to see myself in that way because
I had moved through quite a range of feelings
[in the group], from omnipotence initially
to understanding how destructive I was being
... towards the facilitator ... When I began
to apply it to my life and spot it in other
areas. I did not like that part of myself
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In these episodes it is evident that the distress
has its origin within the individual, and
there is a sense of the individual working
with the material of his or her own volition.
This is a contrary perspective to the anxiety
of educationalists that these groups inflict
damage. The therapists, however, did draw
attention to the way the group can appear
to initiate pain in the individual. Groups
can, in a certain sense, open you up.
Eva explained:
Until I started
getting involved there were a lot of blocked
off areas of my life, like, "That doesn't
hurt me any more", "That doesn't
matter". Insecurities which you cover
up. The course opened these areas to reveal
gaping wounds which needed attention. Issues
got opened up. I got in touch with feelings
and memories. Things about myself which I
did not feel comfortable about. Hurts which
I could not push back under the carpet at
the end of the course. |
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The interviews suggested a more sustained
developmental process for some individuals,
which Matthew called working through.
The following example throws light on why
trainees find it important to work with painful
feelings. The episode Matthew related came
from a twice-weekly therapy group rather than
an experiential group.
In his childhood
his mother had been a dominating person. At
first he was puzzled that he found this to
be a difficult issue to speak about in the
group but as he followed the story through
in all its ramifications it became apparent
that it was bound up with a sense of deep
shame. I remember talking
about being stopped from going on a weekend
with [a school club] because of my mother's
fear of my getting pneumonia - which was one
of her obsessions.. ... the thing was,
I was angry with what my mother had done and
ashamed of the dependency which was involved
in it. It actually seemed to be in some way
dirty and I am sure by that I meant there
was something sexual about it, at some level,
and I am sure there was. Because there was
another thing. ... my father was on night
shift. When I was six, seven, eight, nine,
ten! I used to sleep in my mother's bed. I
thought there was nothing to this, just convenient;
I got lonely at night. But I think it had
left traces - not traces, considerable amounts
- which were to do with sexuality. And there
were consequences to this. I think
what also came through was anger about it
as well. Having slept in the same bed as your
mother, and also the dependency and not wanting
to upset your mother as a result. No...I have
got this thing about upsetting people. And
that needed all working through in a group.
And also upsetting women. Needing to see my
mother as an ideal figure and not acknowledge
the anger. Because the anger was unsafe. Because
if you are with someone closely, you cannot
afford to get angry about it. And also to
accept that women can get angry and I suppose
my mother's relation to her husband and all
this kind of stuff. That why it needed working
through.
Working
through is following these lines and
traces and connections, which spin out from
a central focus, towards some resolution of
the tensions associated with the issue which
eventually yields insight into the self in
relationships. |
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These reports help us to characterize the
pain associated with learning
through an experiential group. By pain
I mean; the furious feelings of participants
in Jenny's group; Peter's fear, anger and
grief when he told the group of his medical
condition; Alison's tears over her unhappy
marriage; the common anxiety of finding the
courage to speak about a troubling aspect
of our experience; losing control when a conjunction
of factors precipitates the emotion, as with
Laura's grief; the shock of facing up to a
repressed aspect of the self as in the case
of Peter's sexuality and Anna's remorse at
her violent attack on the conductor; Eva's
raw sense of being opened up:
and Matthews working through his intense
feelings of shame in his relationship with
his mother
Pain associated with the experiential
group involves the powerful emotions of; anger,
fear, grief, hurt, anxiety, shame, shock and
remorse. A group analyst in training will
inevitably meet and need to work with these
emotions. In the training of group analysts
there is a tendency to view the emotions associated
with learning to be largely bundled up with
the processes of the trainee's therapy. It
is as if working with distressing emotions
is therapy and somehow separate from the learning
processes in the trainee's professional development.
However, if we reflect about where and when
distressing emotions arise in training we
find them to be ubiquitous. It seems wrong
to gather up all feelings and label them "For
Therapy". To do so diminishes the significance
of feelings in human relationships and colludes
with a dominant ideology in organisations
which wishes to label anything to do with
emotions as therapy. |
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I asked the interviewees, How they explained
the need to go through all this pain in their
professional training?.
For Len much
of this was the individual facing up to the
split-off parts of the Self. His explanation
was that facing this pain and surviving,
leads to a new perspective. The individual
discovered that things which were painful
were often shared by others, which gave rise
to a common experience of not being alone.
He spoke of these episodes as being part of
the process of developing intimacy with another
person and within the group. Eva believed
the distress was inevitable in training. The
pain for the therapist arose from facing up
to issues and internal conflicts which she
had previously been defended against. Alison
justified the process of understanding her
own psychological processes in terms of preventing
her own problems becoming entangled with those
of the client. She appreciated the benefits
of therapy in personal terms quite separate
from her professional role. Jenny was going
to attend a group-analytic workshop a few
weeks after our interview and she anticipated
that it would be painful for her. She explained: I
know I am going to survive it and the end
of it it is going to be worthwhile. I am going
to get something out of it. So that the pain
is part of the process of growth and change
that I am going to get out of the weekend.
Pain
is not an end in itself but rather an experience
which is associated with the process of change.
Shirley dismissed her crying in group sessions
as if brushing away flies, the tears were
irrelevant. She cannot talk about
things which matter deeply to her with out
the odd tear or, indeed, lots of tears. Group
therapists regard their feelings as an instrument
in their therapeutic work. Feelings are the
essence of empathy. Their sensitivity to the
currents of feelings within the therapy group
is an important source of information about
the group situation in its manifest and latent
form. Feelings are the vital part of countertransference. Managers
and other professionals reading the previous
sections might find the episodes alien to
their ideas of professional development. The
implication that pain might be an important
aspect of human learning can be denied by
categorizing the episodes as therapy
- an activity which is separate and different
from the learning and development in management
or teacher education programmes. However,
in the group-analytic training these experiences
were an important part of the experiential
group which was central to learning in the
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In this research the training of group therapists
was observed from the viewpoint of professional
development. It is evident that the therapists
in training expect to learn and change. That
it is painful is something of a side issue.
The therapists all accepted that pain and
distress is an inevitable part of the process
of personal change. However, if we are interested
in using group analysis in other areas, pain
associated with the experiential group is
a real barrier. We need to think through how
we deal with this if we are to use our methods
in other fields of training.
For the sake
of clarity in considering the the approach
of group analysis as a training method for
other professionals I focus on managers and
management training. The rôle of manager
has many similarities with group psychotherapists.
How they manage human relationships and group
dynamics are factors in how effective individuals
are in these rôles. Managers need to
learn about human relationships and group
work, and as we know, a group-analytic experiential
group is an effective method for such learning. The
aims of a group are to help participants to
learn about themselves, interpersonal relationships
and group dynamics. In the supportive context
of the group they can get feedback from other
participants. They can observe the relationships
between other members and fit these observations
to the social and psychological concepts that
they studied in other parts of the training
programme. An experiential group enables trainees
to study aspects of human relationships and
groups which are awkward to explore in any
elsewhere. It is difficult to explore psychological
phenomena, such as transference and defence
mechanisms, and group phenomena, such as group
culture and the developmental phases of groups,
with rôle play and structured exercises.
However, people who have not entered the life-world
of the group analytic workshop but who inhabit
the life-world of the commercial or industrial
organization have a different attitude towards
the emotions in learning experiences. The
display of feelings is often regarded as showing
weakness of character. The dominant ideology
in organisational life is that emotions are
inconvenient and should be repressed. A consequence
of this ideology is that the idea of deliberately
working with emotions in training is alien
to many people. This ideology is a significant
factor in limiting the diffusion of group
analysis into other fields. I recently
visited a prestigious management training
centre. One of its principle programmes involves
a good deal of work in small groups and the
participants complete a set of psychometric
tests designed to give them information about
their leadership characteristics. In an individual
interview staff members give each manager
feedback from these tests. At lunch I broached
the question of distress in management training.
Could not the data from these psychometric
tests be unsettling to the managers? (The
term a battery of tests took on
a new meaning.) Did my host not think that
the resource of therapy might be valuable
to managers to support them in assimilating
this new picture of themselves? My host's
immediate response was that their programmes
did not involve any therapy. However,
his colleague disagreed. He said he often
found himself involved in counselling with
individuals. The managers wanted to use their
individual sessions with him to talk about
personal issues which had been stimulated
through the training programme. This illustrates
a dillema for management training for there
is something approaching a taboo in talking
about the distress associated with management
learning. Consequently the disturbing material
and emotions are processed (more or less satisfactorily)
on the margins or in the spaces of management
training programmes. In the 1970s the
T-group enjoyed a period of popularity as
a method for training managers. T-groups worked
with the emotions of the group members and
this was a factor in the subsequent rejection
of T-groups by organizations. Stories circulated
about managers breaking down in
the groups, which fostered alarm. The direct
expression of emotion in a training workshop
was inexplicable to many of the senior managers
who signed the cheque for the workshop fees. However,
emotion in management learning is returning
to the management training agenda. Vince and
Martin (1993: 205-215) wrote critically about
the absence of a theory of emotions in action-learning
- a popular approach to management training
developed by Revans (1983). Action learning
places the emphasis on learning from experience.
A manager in training is given responsibility
for a significant management project and placed
with other trainees in small groups called
learning sets. The set is regarded
mainly as a problem-solving group to support
the trainees' projects. The set is similar
to the peer supervision group in group analytic
training, but the set facilitator's rôle
does not appear to be as important as that
of the supervisor. There is no equivalent
of a therapy or an experiential group in the
action learning training programme, although
it would seem the set provides psychological
support in the way of a self-help group. In
fact, Revans was scathing about the use of
experiential groups in management training, ...
exercises such as sensitivity training, non-directive
counselling and other excursions into group
psychotherapy are but rarely anchored to the
here and now demands of business. (Revans,
1983, quoted in Vince and Martin, 1993)
Vince
and Martin found Revans' overly rational perspective
a handicap in working with the emotions of
learning and personal change. They argue that
the emphasis on rationality denies the significance
of emotions and, in doing so, colludes with
the political status quo of organizational
life. Their own project is to find a
way of describing and working with action
learning process which honours both the psychological
and political processes that seem to be taking
place inside action learning. (1993:205)
The action-learning model as it stands does
not consider the issue of resistance to learning:
the assumption is that emotions are managed
separately. They argue that there is a need
to supplement the model with a theory of emotions
in management learning and they put forward
their suggestion, which is essentially a useful
reformulation of the function of ego defence
mechanisms in learning and growth. |
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I have reported research which suggests that
emotional pain is a significant feature of
learning to become a group psychotherapist.
By extrapolation I suggest that it is also
a feature of management learning, but one
which is not acknowledged. Managers' effectiveness
depends on relationships and their competence
in working with groups. They need to learn
similar concepts, attitudes and skills to
those of a group therapist but the training
of a group therapist requires unlearning and
a reappraisal of the Self. The story from
the management training centre is a case example.
Vince and Martin argue for a theory of emotions
in management training. I have described how
an experiential group could be helpful. There
is, however, a dilemma for group analysts
offering their expertise.
Emotions are at
the heart of the group analytic experiential
group. The experiential group is the principle
medium for communicating group analytic theory
and practice. However, pain in the sense of
negative affect (anger, grief, hurt, shame,
fear, anxiety, and so on.) is an inevitable
part of the process of any group-analytic
experiential group which develops beyond a
superficial level of communication. If the
trainees want the benefits that will flow
from the learning they will need to work with
the associated distress. The dilemma is that
a group analyst cannot conduct a group in
which significant learning occurs without
the associated negative affect. Do group
analysts acknowledge that learning and growth
for a manager is likely to be painful and
that it would be useful to build into programmes
opportunities for trainees to work with the
feelings stimulated in the course of their
training? Would we go as far as to argue that
managers need the element of therapy in their
training programmes? Or should we be judiciously
vague and offer an experiential group? It
is then left to the conductor and the participants
to negotiate the level of communication or
therapy they want to work with after the group
has started. Perhaps such a Trojan-horse tactic
is the best way to deal with the irrationality
that surrounds the issue of education
or therapy? An alternative is to think
through the issue and develop a theory of
emotions in learning for group therapists
and other professional groups. My proposition
is that it would be healthier and more constructive
for all concerned if emotional pain in learning
and growth were acknowledged as normal and
legitimate, and that teaching/learning/therapeutic
strategies were developed to work with emotions
of learning in a constructive way rather than
leaving the making sense of the experience
to the vagaries of the informal system. If
such a theory were articulated it would help
the work of applying group analysis in other
fields. |
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